Kenneth R. Backman, age 62; beloved husband of 40 years to Mary A., nee Kmiecik; cherished father of Kyle Ryne, Ariel Jordan (Rick) Bermea and Aubrey Renée (Harry) Alvarado; adoring grandfather of Clark Olive Bermea and granddaughter to be, Baby Alvarado; loving son of the late Elsie Kane and Ernest Backman; son-in-law of Irene and the late John Kmiecik; dear brother of the late Linda (the late Bob) Stieber, Kristopher (Miriam) Kane; loving brother-in-law to Cynthia "Cyndi" Fricke, Kathy, Jack, Terry, Bob, Cecilia, Carolyn, Greg, Chris and the late Jim; dearest uncle to Brittney Fricke Rogers (Graham Rogers), Brandon Fricke, Jennifer Lynn (Matt) Orze, Jeffrey Robert (Maggie) Stieber and many loved nieces and nephews; wonderful cousin to Donna, Jann, Marty and the late Eric.  Ken was a devoted husband, dedicated father, a proud grandfather, and selflessly helped anyone in need.  He will forever be loved and missed by all who knew him.   Services are being held privately.  In memory of Ken, a donation to the American Cancer Society would be appreciated.  Arrangements entrusted to The Elms Funeral Home 708-453-1234 or www.elmsfh.com